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What Happens When You Keep Saying "I'm Fine" When You're Really Not

What Happens When You Keep Saying "I'm Fine" When You're Really Not

Update: 2025-12-02
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You say “I’m fine”… But your stomach’s in knots. Your voice is quieter than usual. You’re spinning in your head while trying to act chill on the outside. Sound familiar?


In this episode, I’m breaking down what really happens in your body, your brain, and your relationships when you keep pretending everything’s okay… especially when it’s not! This is for the high-achieving girlies who can hold it all together at work, but are overthinking up a storm in their relationships. The ones who’ve been told they’re “too much” and the ones who’ve been praised for being “so strong” (but you’re exhausted). 🫠 Yeah, this one’s for you.


We’ll talk about:


✨ What your nervous system is doing when you default to “I’m fine”


✨ Why this pattern is common for anxiously attached, people-pleasing girlies like us.


✨ How to gently shift toward safety, visibility, and actually being known


🦋 Ready for the deeper work? 


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What Happens When You Keep Saying "I'm Fine" When You're Really Not

What Happens When You Keep Saying "I'm Fine" When You're Really Not

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